Some Wounds Don’t Heal. By Fola A Adriel

-

There are wounds we expect time to fix. Breaks we believe love will mend. Hurts we assume healing will erase. But the truth is, some wounds don’t heal ,at least not in the way we hoped they would.

Some pain lingers. Not as fresh agony, but as a quiet ache. A scar beneath the surface. A sudden memory that still stings, no matter how many years have passed. And while the world around us insists on “moving on,” some moments settle deep, woven into the fabric of who we've become.

But here’s what I’m learning: healing isn’t always the absence of pain. Sometimes, healing is choosing to live, even with the limp. It’s holding space for the ache while still reaching for joy. It’s no longer needing the wound to disappear before we believe we’re whole again.

Some wounds become altars,sacred places where God meets us. Places that make us softer, more compassionate. Places where pride dies and empathy grows. Where we no longer judge others by their pace, because we know what it’s like to carry something invisible but heavy.

If you’ve been waiting for a wound to heal before you live again, breathe again, dream again ,maybe it’s time to stop waiting. Maybe healing looks different now. Maybe it means learning to walk with it, not away from it.

You’re not broken because you’re still bleeding. You’re human. And even here, you’re deeply loved.

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Existing Between Healing and Hurting

-
​ There is a place many people live in but rarely talk about. It is the space between healing and hurting. It is not the darkness of fresh wounds, yet it is not the freedom of complete restoration. It is waking up and realizing that some days are easier than others. It is smiling genuinely in the afternoon and fighting old memories at night. It is making progress while still carrying pain. The world often presents healing as a straight line. We imagine that once we decide to move forward, everything should improve steadily. Reality is different. Healing is often messy, unpredictable, and deeply human. Some scars fade. Others remain visible reminders of battles survived. Some lessons are learned once. Others must be learned repeatedly. Existing between healing and hurting means learning to hold two truths at the same time. You can be grateful and grieving. Strong and exhausted. Hopeful and uncertain. Growing and struggling. These realities do not cancel each other out. They coexis...
Read more

Adulting Is Just Saying “It Is What It Is” Until Something Good Happens

-
There comes a point in life when you realize that adulthood is not the glamorous experience you imagined as a child. Growing up, many people think adults have all the answers, complete control over their lives, and a clear understanding of the future. Reality, however, often tells a different story. Adulting is frequently a journey of uncertainty, unexpected challenges, and constant adaptation. This is why the phrase “it is what it is” has become an unofficial slogan for many adults. The expression reflects a simple acceptance of situations that cannot be changed immediately. Bills arrive whether we are ready or not. Plans fail despite careful preparation. Opportunities disappear, relationships change, and life rarely follows a straight path. In such moments, adults often shrug, take a deep breath, and say, “it is what it is.” The phrase does not always mean giving up. More often, it represents resilience,the ability to acknowledge reality without allowing it to completely defeat o...
Read more

Men's Men’s Mental Health Awareness Day

-
​ Men’s Mental Health Awareness Day serves as an important reminder that mental health matters for everyone. For generations, many men have been taught to hide their emotions, endure difficulties in silence, and view vulnerability as a sign of weakness. While resilience is valuable, constantly suppressing emotions can have serious consequences for mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Mental health challenges such as stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and burnout affect men just as they affect women. However, many men struggle to seek help because of fear, societal expectations, or concerns about being judged. As a result, they may suffer in silence, believing they must handle every problem on their own. Awareness days like this encourage open conversations about mental health. They remind men that asking for help is not weakness, it is courage. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, counselor, or support group can make a significant difference. Sharing burdens ofte...
Read more